Cheating Online
Hi, my name is Dave James, I’m 28 years old, married and I’m a social worker by profession. This is my story that I want to share with you in the hope that I can help someone in the situation that I was in last year.
So this blog is going to be about the three stages I went through while my relationship was breaking down and what steps I took – and how I saved my marriage.

1) Suspicion of your partner
2) Detecting weather your partner is cheating online or offline.
3) Making up or breaking up with your partner.
The internet has brought with it many good things BUT also many bad things one such thing is the ease and magnitude of cheating online. This problem is growing so massively that it is now so, so, so much easier to cheat on your husband or cheat on your wife, boyfriend, girlfriend or partner.
Cheating online can come in many forms and levels from cyber flirting and cybersex in the online chatrooms to hooking up with a stranger to meet for sex on swinging sites and incredibly there are now sites specifically set up for married people to arrange an affair – it doesn’t get much worse than that. Or just using your computer to liaise with someone your partner knows or has known in the past and can now track down through sites such as facebook, myspace and friends reunited etc.
If you’re reading this then you probably have suspicions of your partner’s infidelity and only you will know weather you want to find out the truth to your suspicions or weather you would rather carry on in denial.
If your partner is cheating on you then you are being treated like a dirty old sock they’d just as soon throw away.
That is a horrible thing to hear – but it’s true. Don’t think that its not that bad – it is and nobody should have to live with that knowledge.
If you have devoted yourself to someone and put your emotions in their hands – if your partner has loved you and indeed still says they love you then betrays you then you HAVE to say enough is enough and take action.
The good news is it is not a hopeless position – I was in this position last year and I can honestly say that after a few tough months, I have done what it takes and now I’m happier than ever.
The first thing you need to do is FIND OUT FOR SURE if they are cheating on you – weather it is cheating online or cheating offline or BOTH.
Only once you know for sure can you decide weather you want to get yourself out of the relationship or see if there is any way of reconciliation to get back your former happiness ( more on this later ). But the biggest mistake people make when confronting their partner on suspicion of cheating is that they do it purely on an emotional basis without any PROOF to back up their accusations.
Now that might seem like a bit of a stretch at the moment but I will show you the tools you need to GET YOU YOUR PROOF and plan what you want to do – and if you choose make a full happy reconciliation on your terms.
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