Cheating Online

January 8th, 2010 No comments


Hi, my name is Dave James, I’m 28 years old, married and I’m a social worker by profession. This is my story that I want to share with you in the hope that I can help someone in the situation that I was in last year.

So this blog is going to be about the three stages I went through while my relationship was breaking down and what steps I took – and how I saved my marriage.

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1)      Suspicion of your partner

2)      Detecting weather your partner is cheating online or offline.

3)       Making up or breaking up with your partner.

The internet has brought with it many good things BUT also many bad things one such thing is the ease and magnitude of cheating online. This problem is growing so massively that it is now so, so, so much easier to cheat on your husband or cheat on your wife, boyfriend, girlfriend or partner.

Cheating online can come in many forms and levels from cyber flirting and  cybersex in the online chatrooms to hooking up with a stranger to meet for sex on swinging sites and incredibly there are now sites specifically set up for married people to arrange an affair – it doesn’t get much worse than that. Or just using your computer to liaise with someone your partner knows or has known in the past and can now track down through sites such as facebook, myspace and friends reunited etc.

If you’re reading this then you probably have suspicions of your partner’s infidelity and only you will know weather you want to find out the truth to your suspicions or weather you would rather carry on in denial.

If your partner is cheating on you then you are being treated like a dirty old sock they’d just as soon throw away.

That is a horrible thing to hear – but it’s true. Don’t think that its not that bad – it is and nobody should have to live with that knowledge.

If you have devoted yourself to someone and put your emotions in their hands – if your partner has loved you and indeed still says they love you then betrays you then you HAVE to say enough is enough and take action.

The good news is it is not a hopeless position – I was in this position last year and I can honestly say that after a few tough months, I have done what it takes and now I’m happier than ever.

The first thing you need to do is FIND OUT FOR SURE if they are cheating on you – weather it is cheating online or cheating offline or BOTH.pink panther & Girl

Only once you know for sure can you decide weather you want to get yourself out of the relationship or see if there is any way of reconciliation to get back your former happiness ( more on this later ). But the biggest mistake people make when confronting their partner on suspicion of cheating is that they do it purely on an emotional basis without any PROOF to back up their accusations.

Now that might seem like a bit of a stretch at the moment but I will show you the tools you need to GET YOU YOUR PROOF and plan what you want to do – and if you choose make a full happy reconciliation on your terms.

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Cheating Online – Getting your Proof

November 13th, 2011 No comments

Cheating Online – Getting your Proof – My 2 Recommendations

Win Spy Pro – Computer Spying Software Click Here!

I had my suspicions last year that something was going on with my wife – I suspected that she was up to something – I knew something wasn’t right and I suspected her infidelity. This didn’t happen over night but was a culmination of a couple of months worth of behaviour changes.

Now coming to terms with that was not easy – in fact it was probably the worst experience of my life and it took quite a bit of time before I actually made the decision to do something about my suspicions.

Now this is where I can first be of help to you.

If you want to know if your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating online then you need to know exactly what they are doing on their computer.

  • What websites are they visiting and how long are they on there for ?dating-site-affair
  • Are they going on any chat-rooms and if so what ones and what are they saying ?
  • Are they chatting with anyone directly on msn or yahoo etc. – wouldn’t it be good to know what they chat about ?
  • What emails are they getting?
  • What emails are they sending?
  • Capture screenshots of their computer during their dubious activity

Now if you knew the above information then you would know for sure if your spouse was cheating online or not. You would know for sure if you had a problem that had to be dealt with or weather you had imagined much worse than the reality was. With that information you could plan your next steps.

It sounds ridiculous that you could get your hands on all that info – all your partners accounts are password protected, there is no way you could ever get to read their emails fresh from the server and they could quite easily delete their web history and web cache, so even if you knew how to check on it – you couldn’t and the only way to see their chat would be looking over their shoulder wouldn’t it.

NO – you will be pleased to know that I have tracked down an AMAZING piece of software that will secretly monitor and control all of your partner’s computer use.

All you have to do is load it onto the computer your partner uses and you can MONITOR EVERYTHING on any other computer with internet access without them ever knowing – you will know every website, email sent and received every online chat and with a key logger you will know all your partners passwords – you can even be notified when certain keywords are used on their computer.

One of the most impressive things that I like about this software is that it is so easy to use and you can even install it remotely on any computer just by sending a file over – e.g. it can be embedded in a screensaver or Power Point file – Simply Fantastic.

This piece of software has some amazing features with new state of the art features just released:

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Find out more here

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Please, Please  check this piece of software out – It is the answer to detecting cheating online and your first step forward to making things right.

I must also say that this software product is amazing for monitoring your children’s ( if you have them ) Internet use and would be of long term benefit for that.

With the above software you will have the tools you need to know everything your partner does online 100% totally secretly – your suspicions will be confirmed or proved ill founded – either way you are in control again.

Suspect something is going on behind your back ?

Suspect something is going on behind your back ?

 

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My 2nd Recomendation

November 12th, 2011 No comments

I really recommend this ebook very highly if you are serious about finding out if you are being cheated on.

Take a look at just some of the info it gives you and you will see straight away that this is killer information that will lead you straight to the truth about your loved one !

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To find out more then CLICK HERE

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Secret Weapons To Discover Cheating

February 12th, 2010 No comments

OK so as you can see I have recommended two excellent pieces of software for you to get and believe me if there is any cheating online being done then Webwatcher or Win Spy will catch it red handed.

But maybe you want to explore some other cheat catching opportunities too.

Well here are the top cheat catching gadgets that money can buy on the internet.

Home security and surveillance from FlyOnTheWall.Uk.Com

The secret camera is the most effective way you can use to catch your cheating partner in the act – weather it is filming them cheating online ( and having all that proof recorded by webwatcher or Win Spy ) or filming them ( with sound ) on the phone to full on filming them cheating on you with some one else – the secret camera is the way to go.

Here are a couple that I particularly liked.

Mini CLock Camera

Mini CLock Camera

This fully working LED alarm clock has a tiny camera DVR hidden inside it.It has a long life rechargeable battery and can record up to 12 hours of full colour VGA (640 x 480) video at 30 fps with audio on a 16GB Micro SD card (not included).

It can be set to record on motion detection or manual continuous record. It also comes with a remote control.

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This model has 4 times the resolution and twice the frame rate of most Spy Pen DVR Cameras on the market.  It can record 3 hours of XVGA video (1280 x 960) with audio at 30 fps onto it’s 8GB of internal memory.

The camera also has sound activated recording mode and a still picture mode.

GPS Tracking Device – Know there exact where abots all the time

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This mini GPS tracker offers greater accuracy than the standard GSM trackers.

It is very small and very easy to use, so great for keeping an eye on the location of your valuables. All you need is the tracker itself, a GSM SIM card (Vodafone recommended for the best accuracy) with some credit on it and Google Earth (free to download) installed on your PC or laptop!

You can call the tracker and you will then be sent a text back with the longitude & lattitude co-ordinates of the tracker, simply input these co-ordinates into Google Earth and you will have the tracker location.

The device is powered by an internal rechargeable battery, this will last about a day (dependant upon how much you use it).

The tracker measures just 68x49x17(mm) and is supplied with a charger and instructions.

You can also put the tracker into audio surveillance mode, this allows you to phone the tracker number and listen in to what is going on around it. This is just one of the extra features you will find on this device, there are many others including Geofence (tracker will send a text if it leaves a specified area) & an SOS button (sends an immediate text to all authorised numbers).

Tracking is free of charge, you just need to keep credit on the SIM card that is inside the tracker.

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Cheating Online – The Facts

February 10th, 2010 No comments

It is now reported that here in the UK 20% YES 1 in 5 of all divorced stems from online cheating – that is an incredible figure to come to terms with.

Online social networking sites like Facebook, Myspace & Bebo are often cited in divorce proceedings – and love cheats are being found out more and more with partners checking up on their loved ones online habits.

At first this was a trend seen in the United States but now we see it more and more here in the UK and with some firms of solicitors stating that 20% of their divorce cases are because of Online Cheating and Internet finds.

In the past a suspicious partner would have had to rely on their own deductions or hire a private investigator to make sure their suspicions were not unfounded – not now.

The good news now is that there is some awesome software out there that will catch your partner with their “fingers in the till” and give you the solid evidence to be able to confront them and do something about it – there will be no more – ” it wasn’t me” responses as the evidence will be right in front of you.

These programs are so easy to use and they give you total access to every button that is pushed, every site visited and every chat made – if you do suspect something is going on with your partner then you need to ACT – your either going to be right or your going to be wrong. Either way you will be able to move forward and not let your suspicions wrot your relationship from the inside out.

Check out Webwatcher or Win Spy software packages and be on the safe side.

The phenomena of Online Cheating is here to stay and looks like it’s only going to get worse.

Make Up or Break Up ???

February 1st, 2010 No comments

OK this is the really hard part – I can show you how to find the proof of a cheating wife or cheating husband – just use the tools above that I did and you will have your proof one way or another But once you have this knowledge it is up to you to choose weather you want to try and reconcile your relationship or call it a day. Either way you now have the power again and  even with the proof before me I still loved my wife. I personally couldn’t bear the thought of not trying to reconcile

But how does one go about repairing all that hurt, all that betrayal – is it even possible?

Now there are quite a few books on the net on how to get your man back or how to get your spouse to love you again and I can’t speak for what I haven’t used – only what I have used and after searching through tons of reviews online and looking at many, many options a friend of mine told me in no uncertain terms to read “ the magic of making up “ she said that her marriage was on the rocks – in fact all but over when she bought this book and it changed her life and got her marriage back together when all else had failed.  Now that was all the recommendation or review I needed so I bought the book and downloaded the best thing I have ever bought – I kid you not, if you want the best chance of saving your relationship and being able to deal with all that has gone before – check this out.

Over 50,000 people in 77 countries have been helped by this book and I urge you to watch this video and take a chance on putting things right.

Once you have watched the video – check out his site for all the benefits you will get like:

  • How to get your head on straight. Use my Fast Forward Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression…You CAN feel better and within minutes!
  • Do they still care? Discover the TELL TALE clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart…and I don’t care what they say… This is all you need to look for PERIOD!
  • Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more than sex, food or ball games.
  • What women crave the most… and if she doesn’t  get it…it is only a matter of time  before SHE WILL look for it somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master this simple technique. (This is  the #1 technique used by unscrupulous Don Juan’s use to steal married women.)
  • The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you.
  • The Bonding Secret so powerful that is partially responsible for the reason hostages sometimes bond with their kidnappers or oppressors (Stockholm Syndrome). This is relationship magic. It is undetectable, unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can not defend against it, let alone tell you how it is done. Like ANYTHING, this can be used for good or bad. Once you own The Magic Of Making Up you will possess the power to REBOND or BOND with anyone. Please use responsibly!

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This is just a fraction of what you will learn – so I wish you the very, very best in getting control of your life again and I hope with all my heart that you find the lost love of your life again as I did – I am absolute proof that you can – BUT you need to take action.

Please let me know how things go – I would love to know that I have made some difference to you.

Dave.

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Cyber Affairs – What Constitutes Cheating Online

January 25th, 2010 No comments

I have never met someone so its not cheating online – True or False ?

Just because your partner has never met anyone in person – has there flirting and online actions crossed the line and does it constitute cheating. This is a matter of personal opinion But it must be said that any flirting weather online or offline would be damaging to a relationship – and discussion of things that would be personal to you with another person outside of your relationship is only going to harm it.

Before the Internet cheating on your partner was done by way of secret phone calls and rendezvous but now the Internet has made cheating online a readily available option – log on and find someone to be unfaithful with or to unburden your troubles to.

Even if your partner has not gone online specificaly to pick up someone but starts discussing personal subjects like sex, problems and intimate feelings this can be regarded as cheating online as it is the start of a slippery slope ending in no good.

Online cheating is very similar to an emotional affair. Even if your partner hasn’t acted physically if they continue to flirt online or discuss feelings or emotions via the Internet it will take intimacy away from your current relationship.

How do you get your ex back even after you’ve cheated?

January 11th, 2010 No comments

How do you get your ex back even after you’ve cheated?

Some people claim that an affair should always end a relationship.  But I disagree.  I believe that every relationship is savable if both parties really want to work on it.  This article is about restoring trust in relationships even if they have been caught cheating online or offline.

Restoring trust in relationships requires an adjustment in attitude and actions.  Even after an affair, it is possible to save a relationship.  But that starts with ramping up the level of trust within the couple.

If you have had an affair or have even been cheating online on your partner with cybersex etc.  you have had an attitude which allowed you to stray.  There may be something at the relationship’s core that is diseased.  But you can heal the disease.

What was it that you were looking for when you strayed?  Was the sex humdrum?  Was she too busy for you?  Was she just not spending enough time on her grooming?

You wouldn’t have had an affair if the primary relationship was perfect.  So, what needs to be done to fix it?  Often that lies in self analysis.  But just as often, that lies in the couple’s relationship.

Restoring trust in relationships means fixing the underlying problems.  Sometimes that means going into couples counseling.

But just understanding our thoughts isn’t enough.  The next step is to take concrete action in fixing the problems.

The secret to restoring trust in relationships lies not in talking about the right things, but in doing the right things.

One of the biggest things you can do is to make small promises and keep them.  If you promise to take the trash out every evening, do it.  And, do it consistently.  When you demonstrate that you can be trusted in the small things, a gradual sense of confidence will be realized in the larger picture of the relationship.

Your girlfriend or wife is going to need constant reassurance that you have changed.  This means that you are going to need to apologize more than once over time.  You will also need to treat the recurring comments about the violation of trust as a matter of course.  It is not easy for her to forgive the breach.  If you want to stay with her, you will be patient with her.

This does not mean that you must feel guilty about the indiscretion forever.  In fact, if you allow her to constantly guilt trip you, she will not be satisfied in the new relationship you are building.  Just be understanding.

Finally, you need to put a positive spin on the incident.  Treat it as an opportunity for both of you to grow as individuals and for the relationship to mature.  Just as a bone grows stronger at the place it has been broken, a relationship can improve after an affair.

Restoring trust in a relationship takes time.  It requires that you change both your attitudes and actions.  But it is possible to heal the divide and be a stronger couple as a result.

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5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex

January 9th, 2010 No comments

5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex

Relationships are fragile bonds that need to be built up and maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and cheating online is becoming a bigger & bigger problem, it is a horrible stressful time. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really the best step to take? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are also excellent methods for getting your ex back as well.

1 – Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by acting strong and moving on. When you’ve moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.

2 – Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counterintuitive when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was.

3 – Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.

4 – Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.

5 – Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.

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What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back

January 9th, 2010 No comments

When you break up with someone you love, weather they have been cheating online or offline, you go through lots of painful emotions.  You feel sad, depressed and hurt, and you miss them.  “What should I do to get my ex back?” becomes a question you constantly ask yourself.

The problem for youtr breakup may have arisen from your partner cheating online but there is also good online too. There are many websites, books, blogs, forums and even courses designed to answer the question, what should I do to get my ex back? But common sense can really make a difference after a breakup.  And common courtesy can go long way toward healing your relationship.

If you’re preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering “what should I do to get my ex back?” then follow this simple advice.  You’ll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone.

Don’t play games.  This is very important, but unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power.  If you can make the other person think that you don’t care, or you care more than you really do, you’re manipulating them and that can feel great.  But it won’t feel great for long.

Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the other person isn’t a good feeling. And anything good that happens because of it will always be sullied a little because of the lie.

Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in love with someone else. This is a ploy to make the ex jealous.  While it does work now and then, other times it makes the breakup permanent because it backfires.

Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that they want you back.  Or they could decide that since you moved on so quickly, you don’t really care about them anyway.  You have no way of knowing which way this ploy will work until it’s too late.

Don’t be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally might.  Even if you’re hurt, the fact that you want to know, ‘What should I do to get my ex back?” shows that you’re ready to forgive that person.  If you couldn’t, you wouldn’t want your ex back, you’d be glad it was over.

Now, think about how you’ve been acting.  If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you?  Or would you dread each time?  Do you shout and nag? Even if you feel like raising all kinds of arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at controlling your anger and hurt, and being a person they can miss.

“What should I do to get my ex back?” Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what drew them to you in the first place. They’ll remember your good points and will miss them.  Then you’ll have a better chance of being able to get back together with your ex.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I turned to T ‘Dub’ Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“. And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.

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